Psychologyspeaking topic
The good enough mother: Winnicott argued that 'good enough' care, not perfect care, is what raises the healthiest child. In relationships, why can striving to be perfect do more damage than being good enough?
— Winnicott, the good enough mother
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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