Psychologyspeaking topic
Post-decision dissonance: after agonizing between two options and picking one, why do we start praising our choice and running down the one we left behind? Does deciding really bring relief?
— Leon Festinger, post-decision dissonance
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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